How To Attract Women

Bravery and Desire Way

Yes, I just quoted myself in my own article. I know, I know, that’s pretty self-aggrandizing and probably unnecessary. But it’s my site and it’s a pretty awesome quote, so fuck it, we’ll do it live.

If status creates sexual attraction in women, then demonstration of desire creates sexual arousal in women.

Without getting too deep into the research on female arousal (it’s messy and confusing, which shouldn’t surprise you), the leading theory on female arousal is women are turned on by bold behaviors, displays of bravery, and direct sexual desire, particularly when directed at the woman who is getting aroused.

Whether it’s Fabio the Firefighter or the sexy surfer who braves the 20 foot waves in frigid waters or the solider coming home from Nowhere-istan, displays of bravery turn women on more than anything else. If you don’t believe me, go to your local book store and look at the romance novels. Romance novels are basically porn for women, and you’ll find that they all feature warriors, soldiers, bad boys, race car drivers, football players, firefighters, jet pilots, and enter-your-super-sexy-and-dangerous-occupation-here.

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And not only are these men racy and exciting, but they’re usually brash and debonair — they say what they want and go after it without apology.

But what does this mean for a couple regular guys like you and me?

It means being nervous around her is going to be a pretty big turn off. Afraid to talk to her, afraid to ask her out, afraid to kiss her, afraid to take her home — Fabio the Firefighter wouldn’t be afraid to ravish the shit of her, so why should you?

What it means is that despite every woman you’ve ever heard complain about men hitting on them, bold displays of interest actually work in your favor the majority of the time, as long as they’re demonstrated in a manner that is not too threatening or disrespectful.

Some examples (for better or worse, these are taken from experience):

• Telling a woman she’s beautiful and you’d like to get to know her better. GOOD IDEA
• Whistling at a girl on the street and calling her names. BAD IDEA
• When a woman seems interested in you, just grabbing her and trying to kiss her.GOOD IDEA
• Following a woman for three blocks telling her what you want to do to her sexually.BAD IDEA
• Telling a woman you’re kissing where and how you’d like to have sex with her. GOOD IDEA
• Touching a woman inappropriately when you don’t know her or have not received interest from her. BAD IDEA

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Men typically underestimate how forward they can be with women. And they vastly underestimate how effective being forward and open about their sexual desires is with women who are attracted to them.

As one member of my Sexual Confidence Program recently wrote:

Because honest and respectful demonstrations of sexuality are so rare, not only are women aroused by it, but it often hits them like a breath of fresh air.A proper and honest sexual expression is powerful, and in our society, rare. In fact, there’s a LOT of societal pressure to hide and disassociate from our sexuality. Many of us grow up with a great deal of sexual shame. And not only does this keep us afraid of expressing our sexual desires openly, but it creates an unhealthy neediness and worship of sex.

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